Respects and Boundaries

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Due to an increased number of calls and messages, I unfortunately feel it is necessary to state the following.

I am a highly qualified and registered medical therapist who has worked extremely hard to offer a certain standard of care.

I have some amazing male clients, but i am saddened by the fact that there are still so many men who are ignorant about this profession, and have such a lack of respect for the work that I put into my practice, the years of knowledge and experience that goes into my sessions, and for me as a human being.

Some of the persistent responses that I receive after I have explained why I will not offer the service that has been requested, simply amounts to sexual harrassment and it would not be tolerated elsewhere.
I would like to give my clients confidence in the professional standards that I have continued to uphold since my practice as a nurse and a midwife, and to show them that The Medical Massage Lady is both ethically and boundary driven.

I am therefore making it clear once again that there is a zero-tolerance policy for solicitations of any kind, and that inappropriate requests are taken seriously, and will result in the immediate termination of the session. Should I be sent any inappropriate requests by text message, I will respond once, politely explaining why I do not offer services of a sexual nature, but if that person persists they will be blocked without any further explanation.

Examples of inappropriate requests and behaviour that I have had include, but are not limited to:-

  • happy endings and other extras of a sexual nature
  • body to body massage
  • prostate massage
  • massage while the client pleasures himself
  • offers to send me videos of them pleasuring themselves
  • questions about their size


When I say no to offering a service, I mean NO.